Optimal Intimacy Replay March 20, 2008
Andie Snyder, LCSW - Host
Lenn M. Snyder, M.Ed., LCSW - Guest “The Optimal Intimacy Guy”

Testimonials
We really enjoyed your presentation.
It was really fun to listen to you and Lenn working together.
We found ourselves nodding along with you as you both clarified points and explained solutions and suggestions to problems. It was extra fun because we had you on speaker phone, and we could make dinner while listening, drinking wine, and munching on snacks.
It was downright entertaining for us, and very exciting to be in on
your conversation. - WashingtonWhat a great job! You were amazing and so professional.
No one would know that this is new to you.
Your dad sounds like a doll and he is so proud of you.
Mazel tov!!! - SedonaThanks! I thought Lenn was great and the exchanges with him and
Andie were sweet. - PhiladelphiaI loved the call with Lenn tonight. It was very sweet and filled with
beautiful gems of wisdom. - Oregon
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Lenn Snyder, “The Optimal Intimacy Guy,”
spent over one hour answering questions centered
around creating and maintaining intimacy in your relationships.
We also covered finding a relationship partner, is it ever okay to lie,
how can you tell if your partner is being dishonest
how to create a feeling of safety to communicate your feelings
and be heard,
and so much more!
(Scroll down to see all 17 thought-provoking questions)
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These are the questions Lenn answered (in depth) on March 20, 2008…
He gave very specific answers and used personal, business
and family experiences that every caller can relate to.
—> QUESTION #1
“What is intimacy?”
—> QUESTION #2
“How do you turn regular intimacy into optimal intimacy?”
—> QUESTION #3
“What do you do if your partner does not want what you want?”
—> QUESTION #4
“What are the most important aspects in maintaining optimal intimacy
in relationships once you’ve created it?”
—> QUESTIONS #5
“How do you have an empathic experience of feeling another person’s feelings
without taking on the other person’s pain and without taking responsibility
for the other person’s feelings?
—> QUESTIONS #6
“What is a good mind/heart-set for attracting a relationship partner?”
—> QUESTION #7
“Once you know the feeling to attract someone, how do you begin
an intimate relationship when you have used a number of excuses
not to have one? How do you avoid self-sabotage?”
—> QUESTION #8
“Is there ever a time when it’s best not to be completely honest
with your partner?”
—> QUESTION #9
“Is it appropriate to share every thought with your partner,
in the name of honesty? How do you know where to draw the line?”
—> QUESTION #10
“How do you clear the air about those really difficult topics with your partner
that you are reluctant to talk about? What if you don’t like her reaction,
how do you deal with it?
—> QUESTION #11
How does the listener create a safe space and support the partner
in expressing true feelings when the partner usually gets lost in a
downward spiral of ideas that might not be current or real in the present?
Why does this typically happen?
—> QUESTION #12
“I am divorced and in a committed relationship with my current partner.
I can’t seem to move on to the next level because it feels like I would be
giving up the independence I worked so hard to achieve.
He is a great guy but he does have differences that threaten me.
Why can’t I commit to this man I love? Am I being selfish?
Can a couple be happy for years just dating.
It was really emotional going through separation and divorce
and I don’t think I want to risk having to do that again. What is going on?”
—> QUESTION #13
“Why is it helpful for people to use a therapist when you get to a place
in your relationship where you feel you have a level of self-sabotage
or a fear of allowing yourself to open up and receive more from your partner?
How do you know if it is too much to work through on your own?”
—> QUESTION #14
“What are some suggestions for creating/maintaining intimacy within
a growing relationship where one partner is in another state and
visits every 3 months? Daily phone calls occur?”
—> QUESTION #15
“How do you get your partner to listen to you,
I always feel he isn’t listening to me?”
—> QUESTION #16
“How do you recover from a really bad argument where
things are said that you can’t take back?
How do you argue in a safe way?”
—> QUESTION #17
“How do you create win-win relationships?”
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